"... I find there is a quality to being alone that is incredibly precious. Life rushes back into the void, richer, more vivid, fuller than before."
"And for me, the core, the inner spring, can best be refound through solitude."
--Anne Morrow Lindbergh, Gift from the Sea
we live and work with others, time alone can be hard to come by.
Nowadays, with social media, we may not be truly alone even when we are
physically alone, if we're hooked into the internet.
But I find,
as Lindbergh describes, a potent sense of groundedness, wholeness,
and--paradoxically--connection when I am alone. After a long time of
being with others, I may find the first moments of solitude
disorienting, even scary. But then, as Lindbergh says, "life rushes back
into the void."
Sometimes I need to be alone to figure out what I
think. I need to come back to the center, to reunite with myself, to
pay attention to whatever has been bubbling up in my mind and slipping
to the back burner amid the busy days.