A writer friend and I were talking about process today: how much time to sit at the writing desk, and when, and how to fit in everything else, and how to end a writing session. I noted that my process has changed over the years: I do more writing in the morning now than at night, for example, and I write more regularly rather than in the occasional binge-like sessions of my college days.
Both of us realized that
marriage had correlated with more productivity at the writing desk. We
could think of a few possible reasons--more stability, happiness, less
need to invest emotional energy searching for potential partners and
navigating the uncertainty of the dating world--but of course there's no
guarantee it works that way for everyone who marries. We just found it
One thing I have observed is that many writers'
processes change over time. Life happens, medical conditions happen, our
day-job and family circumstances change. Beyond that, we change as
writers: we try new things, learn what works, explore new genres and
formats. And then, technology changes, too. I used to write primarily in
longhand; now I write primarily though not exclusively on the keyboard.
Whatever works now is my motto.